One of my favorite movies of all time is called ‘Swingers’. Made in the middle of the 90’s, this flick showcases the dating exploits of a few guys in Los Angeles. Like many other comedies there is one guy who is a “ladies-man” and another who has trouble attracting girls into his life.
Now one of my favorite quotes from this movie is when Trent (the successful guy) is coaching Mikey (the dateless loser) about how to act around women. In this line he gives basic advice about what women are looking for in a man:
“I don’t want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie everyone’s *really* hoping makes it happen. I want you to be like the guy in the rated R movie, you know, the guy you’re not sure whether or not you like yet. You’re not sure where he’s coming from. Okay? You’re a bad man. You’re a bad man, Mikey. You’re a bad man, bad man.”
So what’s the point behind mentioning this quote?
Well it’s simple. One quickest ways to attract a woman is to demonstrate a “bad boy” personality. Instead of behaving like the proverbial “nice guy” to women, you should focus on being displaying an edgy and adventurous spirit.
The problem is MANY women want excitement and fun in their lives. And the PG rated guy is not giving to them. While he makes a great “friend”, this type of man does nothing to trigger attraction in women.
Here’s what I mean about the PG guy
He is the guy who is ready to please. If you’ve ever seen a John Hughes movie, then you know this type of man. He is the sweet guy who tries so hard to get an attractive woman to like him. Fortunately in these Hollywood movies, the PG guy ends up with the prom queen at the end of the movie and all ends well for him.
The problem is this NEVER happens in real life.
Instead, the PG guy generally gets ignored by the attractive women who go for the R rated guy. They are always around the man acts cool and can demonstrate a fun-filled lifestyle. Perhaps he is even a little dangerous and edgy.
So remember this, anytime you’re talking to the women, be the R Rated guy. Say edgy things, discuss sex in a funny way and show her an alpha male personality. If your life is boring, then go out and do things that are worth discussing.
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